Self-Hosting Your Email in 2026: Is It Still Worth the Pain?
In 2026 the cost of self-hosting email is not the server, it is the blacklist tax: inherited VPS IP reputation, broader sender mandates, and silent non-delivery you cannot see. My sysadmin verdict is that for most people it is no longer worth the pain, plus the narrow cases where it still is, and the relay-based middle ground I recommend instead.